They were walking on the street quietly. A rather large-sized lady passed by. She waved to another and said, “I just came from the pool.” He nudged his partner and said out of earshot, “And left the pool empty (with a naughty glint in his eyes)!” She looked at him and howled loudly. He had said exactly what she had thought. The exact same words!
There are times when your words come out of another’s mouth!
He and his partner woke up early. They had a race to win – a race with the rising sun. No matter what, they wanted to catch the sunrise on the amazing beach. At the beach, the signs of last night’s revelry of the noisy crowds were strewn all around. There were some stray dogs defecating. A few early joggers were already in their act. And a bunch of fishermen at a distance were coming back with their catch done with their day’s work. Together, they found a nice spot and slowly watched the red sun climb up from behind the trees. Higher and higher the red ball went as it gained heat and intensity. That was truly a mesmerizing view, one they never got tired of. Dusting themselves, they took off to walk on the velvety sand. Each quiet and lost in thoughts and yet so in tune with each other!
Sometimes, silence connects in a way words never can!
She yelled at the kids. Why is it that they conveniently ignored what she said? Most often they attributed it to not having heard anything. At other times, they just didn’t care! Till she raises her voice or threatens with a privilege removal, they don’t move their butts. And in no time, they are after each other at the dining table, screaming, yelling and quarreling. It is a daily story. Why can’t they sit and eat in peace? Why can’t they listen for a change? At the end of the day, all she desires is some good old-fashioned quiet!
Sometimes silence is bliss!
She was troubled. She had a pressing concern. It was not letting her concentrate on her work. She picked up the phone and called a close friend. A few thoughts exchanged, some reassurances from this person who mattered, and it was as if a curtain had lifted. She was suddenly calm and at peace – ready to face the world with a cheerful face!
Sometimes all we need is a few soothing words from someone who matters!
They had a terrible row. He said some really ugly things to her. She was angry and hurt. She expected him to come and apologize. He never did. In his mind, he felt she deserved them. Why did he not watch what he said? Why was it so difficult for her to get as offensive or cantankerous?
Sometimes, words can singe you deeper than bullets!
Words or the lack of them have the power to take us to the dizzying heights of ecstasy or to the ultimate depths of depression!
How lovely this post is Rachna. I have this smiling, calm peace within me.
Sometimes the words written on a cold glass screen by a person you’ve never met applies a much needed balm to your wounded soul- even without intending to.
Thank you. Really, really thank you.
Ah Dagny, your comment brightened my day! Thank you!
Words are very very powerful things. ! I think they have a power to make a break a relationship. But then I also feel that sometimes silence is also as important as words !
Exactly, Ruch! Have we harnessed the full potential of each I wonder?
Sometimes the words spoken and sometimes the words not spoken can both cause much impact.You had given good examples.
Thanks KP Sir!
So true Rachna. Words can change and challenge, create or damage. But it is the words that shape into thoughts, thoughts that become actions that I fear the most.
True Vinita! Aptly put.
Sometimes words can have more effect than a slap on the face
Nice word play 🙂
Thanks Bhagya! And absolutely true.
Very interesting. A really different kind of post.
Yep it is, a sort of random musings stitched together by one thought.
So very true. We can change the world for good or for bad with the power of our words.
And often we have no control over what others say or don’t say!
It is true that the arrow that left the bow and words that left the mouth can never return and leave the hurt behind!
Absolutely! The hurt can last you ages.
I think words have a lot of power. Both good and bad. Some great orators have started revolutions with power of their speech.
When it comes to relationships..words can make or break a relationship. I now firmly believe that “Actions speak louder that words” is all bull when it comes to friends, family and loved ones…
Absolutely agree with what you say, Vinita! Actions speak louder than words only when it comes to good behavior and causes. As you rightly pointed out, words matter a lot especially when it comes to our family and friends. Words can break or brighten a relationship. Sadly, so many don’t understand it or choose to ignore their power. Thanks for reading!
This is such a feel good post. Words indeed have a great impact on our lives. Better keep them sweet and short and use them judiciously.
Thank you, Rekha! Words have impact beyond measure. Use them judiciously — well said!
Beautiful thoughts Rachna! Words can make or mar relations. One must measure the words before uttering them..
I completely agree. Thank you Ushaji!
We don’t even realize how hurtful words can be. A lovely post.
Thank you, Alka! Yes, words can be so very hurtful, the impact of which can completely sear your soul.
It is the said and unsaid words that make or mar relationships Rachna! Silence is not always golden nor is speech.
There is a Tirukkural that says “Burns from a fire will heal but what will never heal is a wound caused by words”. I am freely paraphrasing “Theeyinal sutta pun ullarum aaradhe naavinal sutta vadu”.
Exactly, Suresh! Different circumstances demand the lack or excess of words. Silences can be beautiful if they bridge distances not create them. And words can injure deeply, even written words. Once written or said, even if regretted or erased later, the negative impact stays.
Aaah beautifully said. Words and absence of it, both can be equally powerful!
Thanks Sfurti! It all depends upon the intent behind saying or not saying. But they are supremely powerful!
Wow…. beautiful! perfect post to read on a crappy day! For I know , I’m having one !!
Enjoyed it thoroughly Rachna 🙂
Thanks Naba! And hugs, hope things get better for you. Sorry that you are having a crappy day. And my prayers for your dad!
Lovely. Sometimes prose is poetry, profound and it resonates within – this blog post is one of a kind
Thank you, Ritu! Coming from you, it is a huge compliment, and I will cherish it for a long time.
“Silence is silver. Speech is golden.”
I read that somewhere. We need both. It’s the timing that makes all the difference. Sometimes you get just the opposite of what you need!
A really nice post, Rachna. I was going through the comments and everyone seems to be getting something different and new from it. 🙂
Thank you, DC! Yes, everyone connects in their own. That is the beauty of blogging, and I love what each one takes from a post and how they share their own experience. Glad so many could connect with it.
Beautiful thoughts written wonderfully. Sometimes, another’s words on a blog post can touch your lives thus. Thank you! 🙂
Thanks so much, Sakshi! Indeed blog posts can touch us deeply, can’t they? That is a thread that ties all of us together!
One of the most beautiful posts I have read on blogosphere. Thanks for a wonderful start for the day!
Thanks so much, Saru! I can’t tell you how elated I am with this compliment of yours, as they come from someone who weaves sheer magic with words!
Very nice post Rachna ! Words and many times, silences speak volumes. Its a gift, the ability to speak the right thing at the right time and to hold your tongue, when you know it can do irreversible damage.
Thanks Ash! Indeed to use words and silences effectively is one of the greatest skills one can possess.
I absolutely agree with you. I am not sure why people can’t sit down silently for a minute. Even in a beautiful forest, or waterfall or beach, most of the people are not ready to soak in the silence. Someone told me that she keeps her TV on, so that she feels there is someone in the house. Why do we fear solitude?
It beats me too, Sabyasachi! I think silences can be so beautiful. They give us an opportunity to absorb and ponder. I’ve always found solitude fascinating, not that I don’t enjoy talking or writing.
And you’ve played with the words flown out of you so marvellously! Loved this post so beautifully woven with words, Rachna 🙂
Thanks so much, Deeps! So happy that the words struck a chord with you somewhere.
I have a soft corner for writing about writing, but this has to be one of best pieces of yours I have read. Have come back to it a few times already. 🙂
Thanks Subhorup! Like I told you, appreciation from you means a lot! I am so glad that these few words touched so many. I have always been fascinated equally by silences and words.
Yes Rachna silence can be blissful & words are potent ,two edged daggers–they can work either way.
This reminds me of an old couplet–
Think before you utter,words that cause another pain,
Wounded hearts are slow in healing,if they ever beat again.
Lovely couplet and so very true, Indu!
Such a lovely post. Very nicely written too.
There’ve been so many instances where my words came out of somebody else’s mouth (only it’s never been about weight. 🙂 I’m on the plump side myself 😀 )
The passage about the couple who just watched the sunrise reminds of the friendship quote The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had. 🙂
So beautiful!
Have a great weekend, Rachna.
Thanks Divya! Haven’t we all gone through these, the rollercoaster ride with words. Yes, the best kind of friend is indeed that. You have a great weekend too. Thanks for stopping by!
While I read this, I wish my lil one shuts her non stop mouth and keep quiet while putting the puzzle pieces together…ugh!!!! Loved this post..words mean a lot…and u said it all..:)
Kids, they can so drive you up the wall. Thanks for connecting :).
LOvely! I relate to the yelling at the kids and they not listening one! It is so crazy I tell you!
Tell me about it, Prats :). I’ve two crazy sons! Thanks for stopping by.
I have twins. Boys. So life gets crazier 🙂
That must be crazier for sure :).
One expression…OMG,This is the first time am reading your post & am spell bound. I like the inbetween phrases u mentioned,they makes the lines so meaningful….
I need to work so much on my writing.:(
http://sailorswiferamblings.blogspot.com/2013/08/twinkling-trinkets.html
Thank you so much, Anu, for visiting and for such kind words! Glad you could connect with the post.
Beautiful post Rachna! And such a calming, soothing start to the day. Thanks you for sharing this.
Thank you so much! Thanks for dropping by, Priya!
Rachna, this is one of your best yet! Powerful words….about the power of words – if only we’d realize how our words can make or break people. Thank you for writing this.
Thanks so much, Corinne! Power of words — if only we could harness them correctly!
Ey Rachna, I loved this. Reminds me of a story about a little boy and his dad about hurtful words that I posted long ago on my blog. 🙂 Hugs!
Thanks Vidya! Do share the link please.
🙂 Here it is: http://vidyasury.com/2008/08/my-favorite-short-story.html I think you’ll like it!
Beautiful words interwoven with such apt examples! Words scattered, unspoken, constructive, encouraging or critiquing… They have an everlasting effect on you!
Thank you, Aditi! Aptly summarized.
Look at that – your poetic soul finally broke free! This post sounds more like me than you, my friend! Impressed 🙂
hehe This post just surged out of me! Thanks, Iliana! Somewhere, aren’t we all connected by our thoughts and feelings? The power of words, said and unsaid, touches us all.
Had a splurge of emotions , while reading this post Rachna..
Thanks Sangeeta!
Oh how brilliant! It’s like words have their own moods, isn’t it? Sometimes joyful, at other times PMSing!
And, btw, this is one of loveliest posts of yours that I have read yet.
Gracias! Means a lot as it comes from a writer of your caliber.
Thanks Rickie! Yes, words indeed have their own moods or rather we perceive them by our moods!
What a wonderful post rachna. Words certainly have the power to make or break relationships.
Thanks Jas! They absolutely do.
Love the way you wrote this Rachna, so evocative and thought provoking. So much we can change, so much more we can do. Well said indeed! I’m glad I stopped by too!
Welcome to my space, Deeba! Thank you so much for your warm words. I am so happy to see you here.
Words, or the lack of it, are so powerful! Lovely, thoughtful post indeed, Rachna!
Thanks Roshni!
Words and words are all I have to take your heart away! A corny song but one of my favorites. Brings back memories of the simple innocent times of our teens. Loved this post Rachna!
Thanks Swapna! I quite loved that song :).
Very true ….to say or not to ….words have the power of creation and destruction…thoughtful post
Thanks Sheela for dropping by. Glad you connected with the post.
Dont they say ” TOL MOL KE BOL”.
One wrong word can destroy your relationship.
One good word can find you partner / friend for life.
Take your pick
True that, Chowlaji!
Enjoyed this post and inspiration, Rachna. Sometimes it’s those negative words and talk from our youth (from parents, friends teachers) which remain in our psyche and carry around with us in our minds. A little positivity towards ourselves and positive and encouraging words to others can brighten any one’s day.
Welcome to my blog, Vishnu! Yes negativity can be due to the factors you mentioned. But the person at the other end hardly understands the reason behind your foul mouth, isn’t it?
I firmly believe that relationships are defined by unspoken words. There is so much we convey by gestures, half spoken words and silences.
A unique post Rachna.
Absolutely Amit; I completely agree. And thanks for reading.
Yes, words are indeed powerful. They can move the greatest mountains, swim the deepest oceans and at the same time instigate the most peaceful waters into a tsunami. If we use it properly, we’re good. If we don’t, we would need to reap the results of our bad deeds. Very nicely put 🙂
So true, Ashwini!
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A beautiful eulogy to the power of words.
This post deserves a standing ovation.
Ah my dear! Your words are music to my ears. Thanks so much for reading, Purba!
Awesome write up. This is the beauty of words.
Thanks a lot, Ravindra!
Wow … Lovely post ! You have shared this power of Spoken words and silence so beautifully.