For Gautam, I am at a complete loss. Any game, puzzle or toy and his interest lasts exactly two days. How can I blame him when most of the toys are light-flashing, battery-guzzling varieties. Even the so called puzzles don’t interest him. I remember he earlier enjoyed being read from his board books. And, nowadays all he wants is a toy car and his favorite is a toy auto :). He has more than a hundred cars but he always wants more. I guess boys get attuned to machines from a very young age.
One thing I would really like to do is read to Gautam. But once or twice that I tried, he did not show much interest. And now either I am too busy or tired at the end of the day that I do not even try to read to him.
You know what is the toughest? Buying birthday gifts for other kids. I really do not know what they like so of late I have started handing out cash. Even tougher is buying return gifts. I think they are a complete waste of money in the form of stationery items and I really hope that we can scrap the whole custom of taking gifts and giving return gifts. Just have a party and let all the kids have fun. The useful gifts are anyway bought by the parents and the close relatives.
I think cash gifts are the best. We bought Rohan’s crib partly with his party money, that way you can remember it better too 🙂
Yeah, I have got into the habit of pooling all the money and buying gifts which are much needed or really useful. I think giving cash is really good.
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I think that books are one of the most Wonderful and useful gift one can give to his or her child. Even the so called Nintendo cannot fulfill the purpose the book does…
Yes Manas, books are indeed great gifts but one has to find a balance between pure enjoyment and entertainment with a purpose. I am sure you would not be too happy if you always got “only” books. You see my point. Besides unless I know what kind of reading another child does/enjoys, I really would not risk giving a book unless it is a comic.