Being my first born, Siddharth has always been very special to me. I see so much of myself in him, my own childhood struggles and my own qualities reflected in him. He is my sensitive son, very responsible, intelligent and trustworthy. There was an incident that happened a couple of years back when he really saved himself and his younger brother through his own gumption. I wouldn’t want to revisit that incident because it is truly painful. But, his father and I will always owe him a debt of gratitude for his presence of mind and quick memory. I love the openness that Sid and I share. As he grows older, he is becoming my friend. He discusses and shares things with me, and he cares for my opinion. I feel a special connect with him!From a carefree couple, we become parents. And, over umpteen feedings, diaper changes, waking up at night, helplessly putting him to bed and watching him get up just when you lie down, the deep bellied laughs and the baby gurgles, – life takes a turn towards an amazing journey of adventure, where we all grow and bond together as a family. At every juncture, it is so much fun to see this child of yours, who has so many of your and your husband’s physical and emotional qualities, evolve into an individual of his own. It is the biggest joy, which nature has given to parents to nurture, evolve and mold a life right from scratch. As parents, this special moment will always bind us together in a way very few other memories can. My husband has been with me every step of the way: holding my hand, wiping my tears when I was too tired or frustrated, and sharing the joys and sorrows of parenthood. We never had a nanny, and I really had no other support at home. I am pretty proud of my husband and I for doing it on our own.
Going through his pictures, I feel so overwhelmed that this chit of a boy, this tiny cherub, is now going to be all of 10 years old! He is just a few inches shorter than me and has a shoe size of 6 now :)!
Your mom and dad are proud of you, son. You bring immense joy and happiness to our lives. And, I hope that you always stay the wonderful human being that you already are. Wish you a very Happy Birthday on the 11th!
Tujhe suraj kahoon ya chanda, tujhe deep kahoon yaa tara,
mera naam karega roshan, jag mein mera raj dulaara!
Sujatha SathyaMay 9, 2012 7:46 PM
how wonderful it was to read this and i am sure when Sid reads this, he too would choke with emotion. it’s not often we see this side of you Rachna, a very emotional side i mean and it was touching to read this post
and yes, Sid, if you are reading this:
A very very happy birthday to you – in advance :))
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RachnaMay 9, 2012 8:51 PM
Thank you, Sujatha! Yes, I try to hide this side of me, as you rightly pointed out, but some things are meant to be told :). I know Sid reads my blog, so he will read this. Thanks for the wishes and the warmth.
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BhagyashreeMay 9, 2012 8:31 PM
Such a sweet sweet post… Happy Birthday Sid!!
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RachnaMay 9, 2012 8:51 PM
thanks dear!
JackMay 9, 2012 9:13 PM
Rachna,
Certain feelings can only be understood when one experiences own self. Being mother is one of the top ones. Of course, being parents too. You brought back a lot of old memories. We too did not have a nanny. It was only when our both children were school going and big enough to take care, my wife took up job as teacher for tiny tots. Now we have fun in seeing grandchildren growing up. Your both children are almost same age as those of our daughter.
Take care
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RachnaMay 10, 2012 11:16 AM
Very true, Jack uncle. These special moments in life will stay with us forever. They are fulfilling and intensely satisfying. And, how nice that you could connect your own memories with mine. It is such an amazing experience to see a child come out of you and then grow into an adult.
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GiribalaMay 9, 2012 9:19 PM
Wow! Happy birthday to Sid!!! Three cheers to your friendship 🙂
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RachnaMay 10, 2012 11:17 AM
Thanks, Giribala! Yay!!
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Saru SinghalMay 9, 2012 11:42 PM
Happy Birthday to Sid and it must be a joyous moment for you. Motherhood is wonderful!
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RachnaMay 10, 2012 11:17 AM
thanks so much, Saru!
Rahul BhatiaMay 10, 2012 9:08 AM
A fitting tribute to the Mother’s Day in form of this lovely post!Motherhood described in a very fascinating way! Best Wishes to you and your son, Rachna:)
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RachnaMay 10, 2012 11:18 AM
Thank you Rahul! The amazing memories that we parents have of our kids’ birth, their first steps, their first day at school, their first tooth peeking; there are so many proud, happy and sad moments of a journey together. It is truly enriching.
Alka GurhaMay 10, 2012 9:14 AM
Such a lovely coincidence…to be a mother on Mother’s Day…Happy birthday Sid.
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RachnaMay 10, 2012 11:18 AM
Indeed! Thank you, Alka!
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PurbaMay 10, 2012 1:03 PM
And she ended up writing about her son! Would have loved to read Sid’s ode to his Mom – the woman with chutzpah and boundless energy 🙂
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RachnaMay 10, 2012 4:35 PM
Thank you, Purba! Well, some day he will, and I will look forward to that as well :).
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zephyrMay 10, 2012 3:00 PM
Parenthood needs to be enjoyed especially during the early years since they whizz past before we realise it. I am so happy for you Rachna that you are blessed with such wonderful kids. A Happy Mother’s Day and Many Happy Returns of the Day, Sid! Hugs to both of you 🙂
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RachnaMay 10, 2012 4:36 PM
Yes, it has been 10 years and though it sounds cliched, it really feels like yesterday. And, what an amazing journey it has been with its ups and downs. Thank you, zephyr! I cherish my family. I am blessed with a good husband and kids. Hugs to you in return from both of us :).
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Meera SundararajanMay 10, 2012 3:24 PM
Happy Mother’s Day and Happy Birthday to Siddharth- albeit belated. You are right – becoming a mother is very special. It is also very challenging. You are lucky to have your husband help you through it. Sometimes it feels like magic when we see that little bundle grow up – my daughter looks like me though her qualities are her father’s. I admire the way nature has brought these two together. Good bless Siddharth.
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RachnaMay 10, 2012 4:38 PM
Happy Mother’s Day to you too, and it is Siddharth’s birthday tomorrow. So, your wishes are in time. I know, I am lucky, and my husband chipped in all through. It does feel surreal that one is capable to giving life and then seeing them grow into flesh and blood. Yes, nature is amazing. Thank you for your kind words!
RuchitaMay 10, 2012 3:45 PM
Lovely post!!!
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RachnaMay 10, 2012 4:38 PM
Welcome to my blog, Ruchita! And, thank you.
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BhavanaMay 10, 2012 5:16 PM
Oh such a sweet post!!! I thought you would be writing about your motherhood experience but rather you did what mothers do–showered love on your cub!!! Happy happy Mother’s day and Happy birthday to your son!!!
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RachnaMay 11, 2012 8:42 AM
Thank you Bhavana :
aww..Rachna this is such laborious work–Mother’s day indeed in a way:):)
Yeah, it was pretty crazy! Any other post, I would not have bothered. But, this one I wanted to keep for posterity :).
SidMay 10, 2012 9:07 PM
Thank you everybody:).
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umashankarMay 10, 2012 10:02 PM
You have brought forth the deep bonds between a mother and a child effortlessly. My best wishes to you and Sid.
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RachnaMay 11, 2012 8:42 AM
Thank you umashankar for your warm words.
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many many best wishes. so u gonna be busy throwing a party ?? this weekend
Ah, no party. He has outgrown that thankfully :). He did have great fun yesterday. We watched a movie couple of days back, took him for lunch where he had a surprise, and then he spent time with his friends and with his favorite gadgets!
My best wishes to Siddharth.
And,of course–happy mothers day
Thank you BKC Sir!
Happy birthday to siddarth!! And it is the most beautiful responsibility! Happy mother’s day to you Rachna!
Thanks Vaish!
Wow.. first of all many happy returns of the day to Siddarth. and mothers day well we already had ours months ago in uk, they have different days for different countries..
but they say
Mavaan thandiyaan chavaan
Maan taan rab da roop hai dooja ..
Bikram’s
Oh is it different in the UK? Because it is the same in the US and India. Anyway, thanks for the warm wishes!
Lovely post Rachna!
Thanks Jane!
Happy Bday to Sid !..Yes, its always special bond with the first born.and you and Sid are looking superb in the picture..
Thank you Renu. You are right, and thanks for the compliment :).
Awwww…You made me all teared up reading that 🙂
Wish him a very happy birthday from my side 🙂
Welcome to my blog, Ritika! Thank you so much from both of us. It is a sentimental post, very close to my heart. thanks for liking it.
That’s so sweet.
Wishing Sid a very happy birthday! I am sure as the years go by your bond will only grow stronger. 🙂
My nephew, Siddharth, just turned one a week back. 🙂
Thanks Destiny’s child. I hope so. As parents that is all we want from our kids to be close to us. And, wow, your nephew of the same name turning one in the same month. Great coincidence :).
Belated birthday wishes Sid. Hope you had a wonderful day and a great time.
Rachna, Happy mothers day! This post was so emotional. Straight from your heart. Proud Parents and a proud son.
Thanks Ashwini. And, you are on time. It is his birthday today :). Yep, a sentimental post alright!
u r a sweet mom to him and bday wishes to Sid
Thanks! That is such a sweet thing to say.
such a cute post ..happy mothers day ,,and a big hug to lovely sid reminds me of my son Kevin who is same age ..
happy birthday ..God bless you dear..and keep up the name of your parents!
thanks Harman for such warm and lovely wishes. He did have a great day yesterday!
Wishing Sid a very happy birthday and to you a happy Mother’s Day!
Loved the post and of course the pictures of your bundle of joy! You look lovely!
Thanks NRIGirl and wish you a very happy Mother’s Day too!
Mom is the best lovely snaps and u have a very beautifull eyes 🙂
Thanks so much, Kala!
Lovely picture of your son, and lovely picture of you two together.
I am sure he is getting all the inspiration and goodness from you and your husband.
Happy birthday to Sid and happy mother’s day to you!
Thanks Rama! Wish you a happy mother’s day too.
best wishes. u are a great mom having sacrificed your career. my earlier comments are getting lost in this blog. dunno y
Thanks Vani. I just saw that your comment went into the spam folder. I’ve reinstated that now.
What a lovely gift to have a Mother’s Day son. Happy birthday to this very handsome young man who I am sure will bring you joy all of your days. Your Mother’s Day post touched my heart and made me think of my own three sons, who have become wonderful young adults. We are blessed to be mothers to such children.
Thanks Carmen! Wow, three grown up sons! I am looking forward to seeing both my sons grow up into fine adults. Wish you a very Happy Mother’s Day as well.
Such a sweet post Rachna. Happy Birthday to Siddharth. Wishing him a wonderful fun filled year ahead. 🙂
I remember my 10th Birthday cake. My sisters had put 10 candles on the cake in the shape of 10. I think that was the best birthday ever. Completion of a decade. 🙂
God Bless. Take Care.
Thank you so much, Jyothi! It feels significant — the 10th birthday, doesn’t it? He really had loads of fun yesterday.
Happy Mother’s Day Rachna, nice blog and feelings well expressed. Happy Birthday to Sid.
Thank you Sridhar, and welcome to my space.
Happy Mother’s Day Rachna & happy birthday Sid :-)))
Thanks Agnes!
Happy Mother’s Day, Rachna. Cheery birthday wishes for 10 year old Sid who sounds like a wonderful person to know. The post is so honest, open and beautifully written that one feels a lump in the throat because of emotion. Mothers will understand this post and appreciate it with all their open arms because the road’s been hard, long and worth every step of the way and every mom recognizes the same passion in your words here. Most importantly, Sid’s looking like a natural, responsible leader and may every year bring him greater opportunities to strengthen his core qualities. God bless you all!
Hi Swapna, Such beautiful, heartfelt words from you! Thank you! I am sure each mother would appreciate the sentiment, as all of us have to really do so much for our kids. It is true that we realize our parents’ contribution and appreciate it after we become parents ourselves. And, I am sure each one of us takes a lot of pride in our kids.
wow..such a lovely post
happy mothers day Rachna..
new to your space
awesome space you have
happy following you..:)
do stop by mine sometime
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Hi Jay, Thanks for dropping by. I did visit your space, and I will be sure to visit again for mouthwatering recipes. Thanks for the warm wishes.
Awww……how sweet. Happy mothers’s day to you Rachna and a very happy birthday to the Big B Mr.Sid.
Thanks so much!
wonderful post..and congrats to junior..going by the number of wellwishers u have here…well, one more pat…
thanks Ramesh! One more blessing does not hurt :).
such an awesome post. Hope you had a wonderful mother’s day with your bundle of joy and belated birthday wishes to Siddharth.
Thanks so much, Saks!
So lovely that you became a mother for the first time on a mothers day.. 🙂
Thank you so much. Yep, pretty awesome :).
Belated happy birthday to Sid and belated mother’s day wishes to you too! Motherhood is truly the mostest wonderful experience… enjoy it to the fullest! Cheers 🙂
Thanks Shilpa. Wish you the same albeit belated.
Heh I remember this little guy sitting on my shoulders. Must’ve been five years ago, which is a whole lot at this age.
It was 7 years ago, Bart! And, they grow so fast at this age :).
Such a beeeyoootiful post, Rachna. It made me smile so many times. I remember writing a post on the not-so nice parts of pregnancy and the moment that makes it all SO ok. I can relate to that. 🙂 And the men who make motherhood so much more easier — they are such a blessing, aren’t they?
You became a mother on Mother’s Day? Wow! There’s no forgetting THAT Mother’s Day, huh 🙂
That’s a lovely picture of you and Sid.
Thank you D.Nambiar! One feels that mothers and motherhood is always kept on a pedestal. But, it is so true what a mother goes through bringing up her child — the emotional and physical traumas that she suffers, only she knows! Of course, the men help as much as they can :).
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The bond between first born and mother … it is the deepest. Loved this post, want to go back home and hug my first born (If he allows me to!)
Thank you Ritu! It is indeed. I hope he allows you that hug :). I can see what a tremendous job you have done at being a mother.
I know you are already tired of saying Thank You to your readers, but still could not resist myself from commenting. Your observations are just wow!! “And, over umpteen feedings, diaper changes, waking up at night, ……..deep bellied laughs and the baby gurgles…”
Welcome MeTheObserver to my space. And no, I never tire of saying thank you to my readers. Thanks for connecting with the essence of the post! I am sure each parent has been through this roller coaster of emotions. Are you a parent as well?
I have seen my nephew from close quarters. Tried my hands at bathing and feeding. It’s such a lovely feeling to see him burst into laughter, for reasons only he knew. I was kind of addicted to that smell of Johnson’s powder and puked milk 🙂 Your post made me nostalgic. Now he is in his 13th summer and almost a man!
That was a wonderful post Rachna! Happy B’day to Sid!
Thank you so much, Suresh. Will convey your wishes to Sid.
That was a wonderful post Rachna! Happy B’day to Sid! – (Sorry for the copy paste. But I mean it.)
Thank you The Fool :).
I think very few bonds are like the ones which connect one mother to another. You may be total strangers, but in each other’s experience and emotions you tend to find your own story – a few chapters or maybe the whole. This made me think of my own journey, up till now. Very beautiful, Rachna. Good to have spent a bit of my Saturday afternoon reading this. Forwarding it to my mother now. 🙂
Wishing your boy lots of love and blessings this 12th birthday. He must be looking forward to enter the ‘teens’ now. Have a fun-filled time!
Thank you so much, Sakshi! Glad you connected. For me one of the biggest joys of blogging is what you mentioned. Finding your own story, experience or a few chapters reflected elsewhere. I will convey your wishes to Sid. To tell you the truth, I am quite dreading the terrible teens. Thanks for reading!
Double whammy 🙂 A very happy birthday to Sid and to you for bringing up a fine son. And now that he is prepared to enter the teens, you should gear up too 🙂
Thanks, Jas :). To tell you the truth I am shivering in my boots as he enters his terrible teens :). Thanks for the lovely words and wishes.
A wonderful post Rachna 🙂 A very Happy 13th to Siddharth 🙂
Thanks Swathi. I will convey your wishes to him. 🙂
Lovely post Rachana..It was such a delight reading this one!
Wishing Sid a happy 11th 🙂
Thanks, Parul. This was written 2 years ago. He is 13 today. 🙂
What a perfect day to revisit this post.! Loved it, Rachna
Thanks, Sid.
Ah, such a sweet and lovely post and tribute to your son and in part your dear husband too! 🙂 And oh, what double joy for you being a mother on Mother’s Day of all things! 🙂 By the way, the photo of you and your son is lovely too – he looks sweet! <3
Thanks so much, Elly. You picked up the essence of the post beautifully. I love that picture too though it is 3 years old now. 🙂 Thanks so much.
i have just stepped into motherhood and ur memories of the sudden transformation from a couple to parents got me in the “me too” mode!
Thank for sharing!
Happy Mother’s Day!
Thanks, Shaivi. Welcome to the rollercoaster ride. 🙂